Breakup: The journey to the new beginning
Analyzing ways to deal with the hangover of a Breakup
Breakup is tough man! And the trailing hangover to it makes it even worst! Well, since there is no right math to resolve it, there could be ways to analyze the situation, exploring new lookouts than holding on to something old school.
Memories are the real Murderers!
Things may have changed, even the people may have changed, but we still remember the glimpse from the first date, those corner movie tickets, all those crazy kinds of stuff with that special person and what not. But believe me, there is nothing wrong with it; since that’s yours to keep which is the best part of it.
The only crime is thinking about reliving the memories probably with the same person again and again at any cost.
❝ Change is the only constant❞
We miss memories more than a person because with the passage of time people changes. But actually, people change so that you learn to let go, similarly things go wrong so that you appreciate when they are right.
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
Eventually, you don’t miss the person who they used to be but the memories in your mind. So you may not like the person they have become now but still, end up missing those feelings from the memories.
Rehabilitation for drug addiction
Sometimes people act weird knowing that it’s weird, especially in such situations.
Thinking of fixing the missing part by any means seems to be a fair option. So the possible option could include going back to where it all went wrong and compromising with the situation and letting go of everything, so as to relive the old memories and try to be happy again.
But really, that’s the solution to it?
So psychologically, when a drug addict is kept away from the drugs, the natural response from such a person for that time span could be to think of ways to regain the same feelings which used to make them feel good, even if that requires compromise with the situation and letting go of everything.
Getting over the guilt of feeling guilty
Imagining different ways to link through the missing dots for a happy ending will always remain on the top of the list of guilty pleasures.
Recreating the scenes of being together in the mind triggers the thought of missing something.
With immense inner strength, you decide not to think of it and yet you end up lost in those thoughts which leaves guilt of doing so.
❝ Time heals almost everything❞
Well, it’s ok not to be ok and moreover, it’s just a part of a journey to growing up.
It’s not at all over yet!
It’s a new morning with a new opportunity to climb new heights. As embracing the new opportunities could lead to a bright path, so nourishing stuff you are good at and learning new habits by enrolling in new activities should work best.
❝ You will be exactly as happy as you decide to be❞
Now that you have all the time to focus on yourself try to be a better version of yourself as you got only one life mate. It may include expanding the horizon, meeting new people, exploring new crazy stuff and much more.
And hey, at least now you have experience of what to do and what not, so that next time you stand out bright even with those small changes. ;p
